Lots of people are anxious about coming to therapy for the first time & there are a lot of misconceptions about what actually happens. Sometimes there's an assumption you're going to have to rake over old ground, stirring up many old wounds or traumatic experiences while an older woman in a cardigan nods and asks you how you feel. But good therapy doesn't look like this at all! Firstly, a therapist will go at your own pace - if there are areas that are too painful for you to